Almost 30: The YOLO approach to dating
Well hello again readers! It’s certainly been awhile. I’d like to tell you that’s because I’m successfully married by now, due to following the advice we dispense on this blog, but that would be untrue...
View ArticleMessage Monday – Adultery
Happy Monday everyone! Today’s message is brought to you by the scourge of the earth! Ok, so that might be a tad dramatic. There are way worse people on earth than this guy. Terrorists. Rapists. People...
View ArticleThe return of the Good Message Unicorn (or how S learned to not GAF)
Something is happening here at Stucu. Maybe we’ve got the 1.5 to 2 year itch (a figurative itch, people. Gross.) Maybe it’s the recent rejection my co-bloggers and I have endured. Maybe the summer heat...
View ArticleAnother unicorn, and another act of bravery
Yes, you are still reading the right blog. Despite our frequent digressions these days into whimsical subjects such as mermaids, unicorns, and valiance, this has yet to become a website focused on...
View ArticlePic of the Week – Pumping Gas
Before I get to the substance of this post, I would first like to address the unfortunate uptick in the usage of YOLO around these parts. Both of my fabulous co-bloggers have used the term in their...
View ArticleMessage Monday: Changes
This gem appeared in my inbox last week: Whoa. Way to lay your relationship concerns on the table before we’ve even exchanged one written word. Homeboy here just wants to make sure, before he spends...
View ArticleFirst date with the Good Message Unicorn
In case you are just joining us (in which case, welcome!/fasten your seat belt) this post is technically a Part 2. When we last left off, the Good Message Unicorn had apologized for his lame behavior...
View ArticleMessage Monday: adjectives
I realize that compared to other Message Mondays, this one is pretty harmless. It’s polite and to the point. It contains zero, insults, sexual propositions, or terrifying back woods date scenarios....
View ArticleThoughts on the Okcupid experiments from three reluctant guinea pigs
Happy Friday, readers! When the story of Okcupid’s experiments broke a few weeks ago, the Stucu ladies were already in a bit of a dark place. Dating-wise, it’s been a wildly unsuccessful summer for the...
View ArticleThat time D went on 2 Dates in 1 Day
Well hello there everyone. Happy Monday! I know we’ve been a little delinquent on our posting lately. We’re working on it, we promise! And to prove it to you, on this Monday, rather than a standard...
View ArticleMy Date with The Kid: Sometimes, I’m the worst
I’ll admit we have a pretty formulaic party line here at StuCu which is basically: “Men. They’re the worst.” While our man-hate and complaining may be a little excessive at times (a certain reader...
View ArticleS’s fall dating to do list
Good morning, readers. I trust that we’re all in a…fragile state after a long holiday weekend and the official end of summer. Source: wifflegif.com Speaking of the end of summer, how much do you hate...
View ArticleMessage Monday: regular Joe
Today’s gentleman got right to the point: This message is actually not as random/nonsensical as it probably seems. I mention in my Okcupid profile that 1. I kick ass at the music round of quizzo (I...
View ArticleFlirts and other Fails: Jdate, the remix
Per usual readers, I have a confession to make. No, this confession doesn’t feature me deeply offending a date or flagrantly breaking my first date rules. Instead, I’m about to tell you something about...
View ArticleAlmost famous (and still single)
Time for a little ‘where are they now/why the eff aren’t they posting new content’ Stucu update, with the help of my girl D. Grab your (slightly more appropriate than last week) pumpkin-themed beverage...
View ArticleFirst Date with the Grouchketeer (or: that time S’s date took her to a puppet...
I’d like to kick off this doozy of a post by quoting…myself: “If hell freezes over and a date actually makes a non-bar suggestion, unless that suggestion is ‘Tea Party rally’ or ‘anonymous orgy’, I’m...
View ArticleWhy don’t they write back? Uneducated guesses and other opinions…
Tonight, as I was going through my inbox to prep a Message Monday post for you, dear readers, I realized that nothing noteworthy stood out to me. Sure, there were plenty of lame/nonsensical things to...
View ArticleAnd One Podunk Town…
S mentioned that one of us was moving to the ‘burbs. That would be me (which you probably already figured out from the color-coded comment “the ‘burbs is a generous description for where I’m headed.”)...
View ArticleSecond (and almost third) date with the Grouchketeer
Apparently I left you all hanging with my post from last week, because multiple readers reached out to me and my co-bloggers asking what happened with Grouchketeer. Never fear, my pretties. That was...
View ArticleRevenge is a dish best served by someone else: The not so secret Dating...
Hullo readers! Some updates from Washington, D.C., where I am pleased to report that more has been happening than me just hating on JDate. Well, actually, not a ton more. Mostly just me going on dates...
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